Stop Toxic Fighting with Your Ex

Stop Toxic Fighting with Your Ex

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By Marie Hartwell-Walker, Ed.D.

stop toxic fighting with your exTony and May were at each other within five minutes of sitting down in my office. Although divorced for four years, they are still seething.

“He never shows up on time for the kids. It doesn’t matter if it’s to pick them up from a game or to take them for the weekend. He’s always late. He has no consideration.” That’s May.

“Whoa, whoa, whoa,” says Tony. “Never?” Look, I’m doing the best I can, but you know I can’t leave my computer on the dot. That long-distance job I have means I need a little flexibility. That’s what’s paying your child support!”

My child support? My child support? That money is supporting our children, remember?” May turns to me. “See? Always the victim!”

This couple was referred to me because their kids are showing signs of distress. At ages 9 and 7, they are fully aware…

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